One of the biggest barriers I face when I’m trying to ‘dehoard’ is that I get overwhelmed, I don’t know where to start, and I give up before even trying.
I look out at the mounds of clothes and the piles of black binbags and the broken shelves of books and the wardrobe that I can’t even get to, and any small action I can take seems pointless.
What’s the use of picking up that book or that pair of jeans when the house looks like this?!
I know I need to get over this, and I know that it is a matter of hundreds and hundreds of small steps in order to make a big difference.
This video has some interesting tips. The audio quality isn’t great, but Gayle Goddard (aka the Clutter Fairy) does seem to understand the problem of feeling overwhelmed when you’re trying to declutter, including sabotaging yourself, making things look worse than before you started, and feeling defeated.
She looks at taking small bites and consistency as ways to beat the sense of overwhelm when decluttering.